My guy wants to have anal sex! I am curious but not sure. Does it hurt? Is it enjoyable? HELP!

hi there!!
i was kinda against anal sex when i met my fiance!! but he was really into it, i think i was kinda nervous for the same reasons you were, i was sure it would hurt and i didnt know if id like it!! well me and him talked about it loads and he got the impression that i wanted to try it but was kinda scared!! one night when we were kinda fooling around on the bed he got behind me and started teasing my clit and everywhere else, the wetter i was getting he was spreading up to my ass!! i have to admit the feeling i was getting was REALLY good!! still, i thought he was just gonna do it doggy style....until that is...i felt his hard dick start to press against my ass!! this was my opportunity to tell him to stop...but i didnt!! i have to admit that i waited for the pain to come but i was quite relaxed and there was plenty of lubrication so it wasnt actually sore!! it can be a wee bit uncomfortable as he puts the head in but its not sore!! and this is really only the first time!! anyway, the pleasure you get during anal sex far outweighs the wee second of discomfort!! i would say give it a go!! if you dont like it then thats fine but at least you tried!! the more comfortable you get doing it you can possibly eve think about using a vibrator at the same time...(highly reccomended)

I suggest you take it slow and easy. My last lady was scared of it too, but I took it nice and slow. I got her all wet and hot and then lubed her ass with her juices. Then I slowly inserted my finger to get her used to it. She came from just putting my finger in her, then I got her used to the feeling of something in her ass and then got her nice and lubed again and slowly put it in her ass. Just remind him to go slow and not just ram it into you and it will be okay and very enjoyable.

The main thing is to go slowly, as Dunchad says "not just ram it into you"and use lots and lots of lubricant....
the slight discomfit you may experience is worth it...anal sex feels damn good when done right

The main thing is to go slowly, as Dunchad says "not just ram it into you"and use lots and lots of lubricant....
the slight discomfit you may experience is worth it...anal sex feels damn good when done right

Try laying on your sides with your back against him, then you can pick how fast it goes in...sometimes you just have to stop for a minute, but if he pulls out then you have to do it all over again...so if you have more control, then you know exactly the right time for him to push, and if you still don't feel comfortable, he won't mind. You tried didn't you, that's a turn on in itself.

The first few moments can be painful. Make sure you are relaxed and use plenty of lubricant. The feeling is great while you're doing it and then the next day feeling the sensations as your ass works itself back into it's tightness...mmmm. I love it.

Have your guy use one finger first, then two, then a vibrator just to loosen you up. It'll make it easier for him to push his way in.

ENJOY!
MB

I wouldn't chose it over having my pussy fucked, but it feels very nice. Slow is the key here though.. and lots of lube.

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When we were younger we tried to have anal sex.My wife couldn't relax enough.Even though we used alot of lubricant,we
never did complete the act.We finally figured that with all of the
other things that we do together sexually;Why bother?We have
been married for 36yrs.so we must be doing something right.
I often wonder if we should have tried harder.She didn't want
me to ejaculate in her mouth until she tried it.You see,when we
were young,those things supposedly weren't done.Little did we
know,that everyone did them. Irish

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I would love to have anal sex with my wife. How should I broach the subject?

I know she enjoys it when I rim her asshole and when I push a finger in, but she does squirm a bit if my finger stays longer than 30 seconds or so.

Can one of you wonderful ladies give me step-by-step instructions?

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Educate yourself. Here are some good sources. If you can't get directly to the 2 how-tos on anal sex at Clitical.com, just click on "How To" in the left-hand column, and it will take you to them.

Anal sex is definitely worth trying...at least a couple of times to see how you like it.

http://www.clitical.com/anal.php

http://www.libida.com/content/howto...2&id=1134571316

http://www.puckerup.com/anal_advisor/anal.htm

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I was very anti anal sex untill I became involved with my new husband Rastapope (he posts here too). I'm not sure why things were different with him but lets just say that I deffinately enjoy anal sex. We dont do it all the time, keeps it special and new. I really suggest trying it with someone you trust totally.