if you are using a site provided avatar click no at the top.....if a custom them make sure it is not ticked
pick an av or scroll down for a custom
click the yes button if you want to choose a custom av
and then use the browse to select it from your computer
then submit.
I have alot of avatars at my site resized for the dimensions allowed here 75X75 you are welcome to use any and I would be glad to help you customize one too. http://pixies-place.com/lilith/avs/
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