For the women. What kind of lube do you like best? I am new at this I have trying for a while but have too much pain, help!

I always buy KY but there are other preferences here:

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Also, I find it's not the lube but it's the way it's approached -- slooooooowly

Well it all comes down to how you mentally prepare yourself for it. If you have any hang ups about it hurting or whether the guy is too big, then it will never work. You just have to think about relaxing your ass muscles, and make sure that lot's of lube is used and he takes his time putting it in. You just worry about relaxing and let him worry about getting it there. If of course he is going a bit too rough and it starts to hurt, then of course tell him to slow down.

Why ask only women? Do you not think men don't communicate with their partners to find out what they like or what works best?