08-06-2007, 07:39 AM
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I feel a little sheepish posting this
but here goes.
I've been sleeping with Mr HB for 6 months, he is quite well endowed, but it's never been a problem as we only have sex once I'm very turned on, and well lubricated.
As you may know, he's been away for 2 weeks, where at most, a few times I slipped a finger inside myself [alone, I'm more a fan of clitoral stimulation].
Now he's back, and it's been fun making up for lost time, but sex hurts. It's not that I'm not turned on, I'm getting wetter than ever before, but last night he really struggled to penetrate me.
In the past, I've happily gone a year without sex, and felt nothing like this.
What's going on? Is this normal?
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08-06-2007, 07:55 AM
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Was this something you were concerned about before you first had sex when you saw him again? If so, it's possible that just a little bit of anxiety is causing your muscles to tighten up....likewise, if your issue from before (with the ex etc) is not quite resolved in your head, it could just be a little bit of tension that's manifesting itself during love making.
If you feel sure it's not linked with your head, but more of a physical problem, I suggest you talk to him about it, and ask him to go really gently. Experiment with different positions that give you more control over the movement, and that allow you to be more physically 'open'. Make sure he uses his fingers on you first and that you are totally relaxed when he enters you (I know it's easier said than done when you're anticipating pain, but try your best).
I find sex a little bit painful sometimes having given birth (I had to have stitches) so I find it's something I have to be more aware of than before, but the above tricks work for me.
Whatever you do, don't just grin and bear it.
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08-06-2007, 08:05 AM
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Thank you Lou.
I wasn't concerned before we had sex at all, we spent most of yesterday in bed 'catching up' - I felt the same every time, despite how horny I was.
However, I'll remember what you've suggested and give it a go tonight.
Thanks again Lou x
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08-06-2007, 10:27 AM
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Did someone say ?
Ok, back to your thread...who knows why things were a bit difficult this time? It's worked in the past so we know things fit together nicely. Try not to stress it or it will be the worry & anticipation that will get in the way of things (like that sexy lady Lou suggested) and just go on about your business of happily pleasuring each other.
If you are still concerned...perhaps photo-documenting the situation might offer us some insight.
Hey...I had to try!
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08-07-2007, 02:16 AM
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LOL WI, thank you, I will keep that in mind! x
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08-07-2007, 05:31 AM
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Have you by chance been overdoing the make-up sessions or was it hurting right at the start? If it's been hurting all along, and it's not a lubrication problem, maybe a chat with your doctor might be appropriate .... just to be safe.
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08-08-2007, 04:22 AM
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Thanks DB.
We haven't really been over doing it, but I suppose after 2 weeks of nothing, I'm not used to it.
It hasn't hurt all along, it was a little uncomfortable in the beginning but after the first few times, it was fine.
He says it feels tighter than before, and it doesn't really hurt now just a little uncomfortable for a minute.
x
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08-08-2007, 12:07 PM
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Again, we are reminded of the importance of stretching & a warm-up before a workout...
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08-11-2007, 08:17 AM
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All good advice ^^^ MHB!
And believe me when I tell you that Loulabelle knows first hand of what she speaks! If you don't believe me...go search some of FussyPucker's pic threads! OOOOOOOOLALAAAAAAAA!
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08-11-2007, 01:39 PM
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Ha ha ha! FussyPucker will pay you later, ,LixyChick!
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08-13-2007, 06:18 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Loulabelle
Ha ha ha! FussyPucker will pay you later, ,LixyChick!
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Your money isn't welcome here! Of course I do believe we could take it out in trade! *giggle*
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08-27-2007, 10:23 PM
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From a guy's stand point:
My fiance and I were apart due to work for 4 months. She is a smaller girl and was always really tight. I had to go very slow when we first started dating and then she stretched out and got used to me I guess, but after those four months it almost seemed like we were starting over. I had to go slowly again for the first few times. We just got to see each other again last week and made up for a lot of lost time so we were both sore by the end of the weekend. I'd say just tell him and take it slow.
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