Me and my partner have been sexual active in the past and have only been together for the last two years. We both have a very high sex drive and make love whenever possible today as an example has been 5 times so far and its still early. We got talking abot a threesome which we have both done in the past with previous partners and we were wondering would it be better going to a swinging club, use a escort or advertise in a ad mag or even pick someone up from a club.

Thanks for any response

I have heard that hiring someone can eliminate many of the emotional issues.

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so far that is the main route we fancy as we don't want to get emotional involved with anyone alse this threesome is for pure sex only

As Lil pointed out, unless you know someone who is also in this purely for the sex (the "fuck buddy" scenario), a professional may be your best option. However, if you *do* have someone that you're both comfortable with, and that person also agrees and wholeheartedly supports those ground rules established beforehand, you shouldn't have too much trouble going that route, either.

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I kind of consider it in the same relm of anal sex with lube.

Talk about it, when you think you've talked about it enough talk about it some more.

Professionals are great because it leaves emotions out of it, but also makes repeating it expensive, great for the first time around though.

Also, you'll need to realize that 2 girls and one man is what most guys think of, but your misses might want two guys and her and you might want to discuss this as well.

Always play safe. Better safe then sorry!!!

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Also, your pick of beauty might be better the professional route, but beauty is all in the eyes of the beholder.

Funnily enough, I was about to say the exact opposite of what Puppylove said about beauty and attraction!

My worry about hiring someone would be having less choice in terms of the person being attractive to both parties (how do you choose? From a picture? I'd never be able to tell if I fancied someone from one picture!) and there's also the issue of the third party not necessarily enjoying the experience, since they're being paid for it. Also, I'd have thought that hiring someone would also remove some of the excitement of anticipation, the thrill of the chase, as it were.....I'd also worry that perhaps a threesome with a professional might not flow, since the professional may have a set 'repertoire' and make it all a bit perfunctory.

Just my thoughts on the downside, since the upsides of that route have been made plain by many others here.

Oh and just one other thought....FussyPucker and I live in central England too, yknow.....

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Thanks for all the advice. This is something that is defo going to happen just need to find the right woman who can accomodate a very horny ciouple.

I will keep you posted on the outcome and you never know could be some hot and hony pics


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