of just plain giving up


i mean you talk to girls you talk about stuff and then thats it, they go on there way with other guys, even if they do talk to you about personal stuff they always forget about me in the long run,

what the fuck is the point? really?


i give up its horse shit

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hungry? why wait.....eat me.

MM~ the path of life is gonna be filled with many bumps and obstacles. Women can be fickle. While it's hard for you to know what they want, sometimes, even they don't know. Makes your job of finding one even more difficult. I'm sorry you feel hurt, but don't ever say you give up. It's gonna be the one you chase, and just when you think you can't catch her, she trips, on purpose.

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The practice of putting women on pedestals began to die out when it was discovered that they could give orders better from there.~ Betty Grable

If I wanted your opinion, I'd remove the duct tape and ask you for it.~ Me
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Exactly what Lilith said!!! Us girls like to be chased too! That's all part of the flirting and teasing...."come on chase me, show me how bad you want me".

Not worth "giving up" over that's for sure. Have some patience.

Your'e a sexy guy!

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~Tainted Love~

I watched a bio of George Hamilton last night, and he said that he just treated women with charm, grace, and good manners till they asked them for more! He even got Liz Taylor that way...Well a lot of guys got Liz

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Susan

Not only are you sexy but you seem like an all around great guy...the girls would be lucky to be with you *HUGZ* Please don't give up, when you least expect it, it'll happen......and until then, hehe, I'm sure there are lots of us pixies girls that would always welcome a visit from you Hang in there hon!

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Don't forget to stop and smell the roses *S* @};-

Excuse me if i sound mean when i say this but, speaking as a woman near your age.... no wonder you are having no luck with that attitude. Sometimes we like to be romanced, and not for the point of you trying to get into our pants. You are still young there is plenty of time left. Why do you think everything has to happen now? I mean a turkey will never cook if you keep openind the oven door. What i'm trying to say is maybe you should look into being friends first that is what the most incredible relationships are built on. If you are ment to be romantically it will happen, sometimes you do have to wait for the good.

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"I've seen a look in dogs' eyes, a quickly vanishing look of amazed contempt, and I am convinced that basically dogs think humans are nuts." - John Steinbeck

thanks for the words of wisdom all of you,

I just kinda had a really bad night and i just get very frustrated with women,

i just feel like i'm under pressure all the time cause my life is just....not normal, i have no sex life, i've never had a real/serious relationship,

I look around and its like i get treated differently then other guys, and i get treated like the 5th wheel all the time like i'm not suppose to be around, i'm a really nice guy i think and i do things that people ask me to do and in the long run i always get fucked over,

and then when i reallly think about, if the opportunity is there how will i be able to take it with all the fear that I have with this, i'm just plain clueless as to what women want me to do

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hungry? why wait.....eat me.

Ask them...not in a needy way but just ask what they are looking for. But keep in mind, it may not be typical for a woman in the age range you are exploring, to know for herself exactly what she is looking for yet.

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The practice of putting women on pedestals began to die out when it was discovered that they could give orders better from there.~ Betty Grable

If I wanted your opinion, I'd remove the duct tape and ask you for it.~ Me
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One man's dream is another man's nightmare~~~~> §¤ Lilith ¤§
~>My Scribbles<~
==>Gone Shopping<== ~Just a Quickie~ *~A Celebration Vacation~* ~Surprises~ Sleeping With the Window Open
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I totally agree with Lilith on the women my age not knowing what they want. It takes me weeks even months to pick out a dress we might wear one night (prom). Personaly i don't think that i can make the decision about what i want because i don't know what all my options are in men or life for that matter yet.

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"I've seen a look in dogs' eyes, a quickly vanishing look of amazed contempt, and I am convinced that basically dogs think humans are nuts." - John Steinbeck

Might I suggest you take all the time you need to search out all the options in life.....At my age I feel like I had better make a decision pretty quick before the opportunity passes me by

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The practice of putting women on pedestals began to die out when it was discovered that they could give orders better from there.~ Betty Grable

If I wanted your opinion, I'd remove the duct tape and ask you for it.~ Me
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One man's dream is another man's nightmare~~~~> §¤ Lilith ¤§
~>My Scribbles<~
==>Gone Shopping<== ~Just a Quickie~ *~A Celebration Vacation~* ~Surprises~ Sleeping With the Window Open
What Did You Do Today? Self Defense Class ~Short Sweet Snippets~ § Summer Spin § Story Challenge Submission Pajamas

Hey hon, I swear we all wonder about the opposite sex at times, so what you are going through is nothing new. And when I was your age, I was pretty much in the same boat...you mentioned no sex life....hell, I was a virgin until I was 20 and then after the first time, did not have sex again until I was with my husband. Yes, I too always felt like the odd man out. I guess what I'm trying to say is if you ever want to talk to someone who's been there, give me a shout. *HUGZ*

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Don't forget to stop and smell the roses *S* @};-

Wish I could tell ya it's gets easier down the road, but...sometimes it seems that women & men are 2 different species trying to intermingle (& I'm not the first to say that)...all I can tell ya is that maybe it does seem that girls are drawn to the bad boys, but I wouldn't stop being a nice guy just to improve my chances...just be yourself & the right one will come along (prob when you're not even looking for her)...

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If the theory does not conform to the facts, then the facts must be discarded.

No good deed ever goes unpunished

Never argue with an idiot. He'll drag you down to his level, & beat you with experience.

On Wednesday, Mrs. WI and I will celebrate our 14th wedding anniversary. We met while working together, yes...she was my boss, and got married roughly three years later. In that time, we've bought and sold houses, moved countless numbers of times, brought new lives into this world...and said goodbye to wonderful people leaving it. In those 14 years, we've talked openly and honestly about our life together, our lives before we met and our future.


I still have no idea what the deal is!

Actually, I wasn't looking for love. It found me. I made her laugh on the first day we met. After that, she was putty in my hands. I couldn't wait for her to order me to have sex with her.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.

My advice is to not worry so much about what a woman wants you to do, but to be yourself and do what YOU want to do. (Within the boundaries of the law of course!) When I met my wife I never thought we'd end up together so I never held back the real me. I made no attempts to 'show' her the sides of me that would appeal to her the most. I was just me. Funny thing is, she felt the same way and behaved the same. It has been the best relationship I have had. Be yourself and if they don't like it, then you know that a LTR would never have worked out.

Good luck and try to keep your chin up... if a girl says how are you doing and you reply with, "My life is a dark cesspool of liquified rejection", chances are she's gonna find someone else to chat with, and fast. Think Happy Thoughts or Bart might turn you into a dog...

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Clever? Nah, I ran out of that years ago. But if you find this, let me know, k?
"The road goes ever on..." ~ Tolkien

In memory of my friend skip...
Go then, there are other worlds than these

Oh Babe...you're gonna hate me. All I can tell you is that "doing what they thought I wanted" was never what impressed me about guys when I was your age. I didn't want the guy who wanted to impress me. I wanted the guys who WERE impressive. They were funny, or had a good voice, or interesting thoughts, or sometimes were just naturally easy to be around. It wasn't something they just did for me. I was foolish enough to pull away from any guy that pursued me too obviously...after all, if they wanted me THAT much, there had to be something wrong with them.

Believe me, there's many a day since then that I've kicked myself for not taking a closer look at the who were making the effort. But in some ways, my standards haven't changed all that much. I'm still really interested in who the guy is when he's not trying to impress me. But now I'm impressed by different things. Now knowing he's a good guy who cares about me, does the right thing when no-one's looking, has his priorities straight and a killer sence of humor...that impresses me. But it's still all about the things that happen between the candy and flower moments.

The best advice I can give you is just a variant on what everyone else has said....be yourself, find your interests, make yourself into a whole and happy person...and the girls will figure out you're a prize. I don't buy this "nice guys finish last" stuff....I've been involved with way too many nice guys myself .

Anyway, glad it sounds like your black mood's starting to clear.