While it is just a thought, I really think that while men and women have passionate relationships, a woman can only be truly and completely pleased by another woman. They hold a deep bound to one another in a way that a man can never fully explain or understand. Just a deep thought while thinking of the beauty of the woman of my life.

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Mmmmm....

So by your logic then a man could only be pleased by another man. Or is it that you only think women share a deep bond with members of their gender and guys don't. Just a thought of mine.

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I'm not sure that that is true, maybe for some women. I have not had a deep bond with another female since junior high, and I wouldn't say that that was a deep bond! I have always been closer to men, and not just sexually! I do envy the women I know that have found another woman to have that kind of connection with though, and I am open to having meaningful friendships with women. It just hasn't happened yet! I'll keep looking. Oh and btw...I feel very fufilled by my friendship with my s/o. There is nothing that I couldn't share with him. The bond is there!

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I've always found myself more able to be friends with guys -- women can be so caddy at times....and you never feel like you need to compete. I'm certain I don't agree!

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I don't agree! Well...wait. That isn't a fair answer as I don't fully understand what you mean by "truly and completely pleased".

Sexually?

In all there is to love and life?

No matter. I've thought it over as I asked those questions and I still don't agree! For me, I need the male bond in my life and could never be completely satisfied if I had no men in my life or bed!

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I have to agree with osuche. I have always had more guy friends then women. I changed that and then found out that it's still true as an adult...women want to nag, compete and hurt you. Where a man tells you if you look good, can just be friends and hang out and no pressure as to dressing to fit in, etc. I do have a couple girl friends that I could not live without, but mostly am closer to guys.
As far as sexually...sure a woman might look good to me and I may wonder what it would be like to taste her, but I know that I need him to finish me....if you know what I mean.

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I personally have more male friends than female friends. I seem to make a good "little sister" and I treasure my friends and would do anything for them. I have found that as friends, women suck. They are competitive and back stabbing bitches and will turn on you in a heartbeat.

This may be because I'm not a prissy, materialistic, self-centered person and get along much better as just "one of the guys". It has been my experience that if a woman has a problem with you, she will talk about it to everyone else, but you. If a man has something to say about you, he will say it to your face.

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Isn't this interesting!!!!

I can count on one hand the close guy friends I talk to regularly.

But I have many more girl friends that I talk to, pick on and tease on a regular basis.

Maybe they just see me as the harmless ol guy!

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Personally I couldn't disagree with you more. While what you say may be true for some women, going by the replys to this thread it obviously isn't for all of us. Like the ladies before me, I've always had more guy friends then girl friends. Even to this day I find it easier to talk to and share things with a guy.

I think when you find your 'soul-mate', your 'true-love', your 'happy-ever-after' person, it doesn't matter if they're male or female. You are complete with them and they fill all your needs and desires. For some thats male and for some thats female. I don't think you can make a generalized statement like you did and have it hold true for everyone.

If you really believe what you said, then you must feel you do not completely satisfy your SO. Thats to bad. What are her thoughts on this?

I know exactly what you mean! For some weird reason, I only feel comfortable in the company of women. When I'm out with the lads, then I always feel on edge as if something is gonna happen.

I get the impression that most of the women I know don't feel threatened by me, I wonder why that is...

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While spending a great deal of time counseling individuals, I found that while many get along great with the opposite sex, it is a very special bond that women have, the passion, heart and love that they seem to hold for one another (no not the girl in the office that drives you nuts) but the individual that always has the smile, listening ear, shoulder to hold the tears of pain, that it seems that no man really understands. It is a very special relationship. It is closer than sisters, and deeper than friends. It is something I have found to be very special and endearing of ladies. Including my soul mate, lover, friend and loving spouse. It, to me, is something so increible about women. Just a thought.

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Mmmmm....

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Just a thought...but after reading all the responses maybe pixies are of a different sort. All though we have differences there is some commanality that drew us to this site. Seems likely to me that people that are more open sexually and not afraid to express themselves in many ways would have a hard time bonding w/ people that are not like that. So maybe we are all EXCEPTIONAL!!!! I am also wondering how we pixie ladies might get on if we knew each other in RL. I haven't seen alot of the cattiness and bitchiness that so irritates me with most women. Obviously we all have our moments, but that includes both sexes! I know this is throwing alot of stereotypes out there, but they do come from somewhere!

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I do have more female friends than male and find women to be great friends. This is particualarly so when no sex is involved, attraction yes, but doing it no.

Also I have some very close male friends whom I trust and share feelings and confidences with. They are Pixies though and Pixies are a special breed of people