Between confidence and arrogance

or

interested and psycho stalker

or

competitive and obsessive



Any thoughts?

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It amazes me lilith where you find these topics for discussion!

I agree with the arrogance and confidence, can be the first think you notice in a person! can't say i have seen it with anyone here though

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Confidence doesn't annoy me, arrogance does.

Someone interested can quickly cross the line into stalking territory is he/she doesn't/won't pick up on body language, etc.

Competitive is healthy . . . obsession is too much!

i like the "interested vs psycho stalker".

by the way, Lilith... Those socks didn't go with the outfit you were wearing today...

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LOL..good try...skirt, heeled sandals, no socks, no panties

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Lilith,

How does one decide if the one making the judgment call is correct - in either direction?

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Eudaimonia

exactly^^^

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~>My Scribbles<~
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You're perhaps not looking hard enough.................I'm over here!!!

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Strength in depth

I believe your most attractive features are your heart and soul

Between confidence and arrogance.....

It's "confidence" when you proclaim it once. It's "arrogance" when you repeat it less than a 1/2 hour later!

or

interested and psycho stalker.....

It's "interested" when he says, "We've got to stop meeting like this because people will begin to talk". It's "psycho stalker" when he quits saying that and you end up in the witness protection program!

or

competitive and obsessive.....

It's "competitive" when the crowd is rooting for you. It's "obsessive" when everyone but you has already gone home! <-----READ BETWEEN THE LINES ON THAT ONE!

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Lil...What about the fine line between provocative and annoying??

(jk - I love these )




WAIT...Did that post make me seem confident or arrogant???

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I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney

true..osuche

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One man's dream is another man's nightmare~~~~> §¤ Lilith ¤§
~>My Scribbles<~
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Lilith,

I would suggest that one is arrogant or obsessive rather than confident or competitive, when one is indifferent to the opinions expressed by others. When the states of mind are not accessible to others, they run a much higher risk of being destructive or damaging (arrogant and obsessive), rather than healthy and alive (confident and competitive).

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Eudaimonia

The difference between interested and psycho-stalker is...


which side of the window they are standing at when they are thinking about you!

Competitive people love to win...obsessive people must win.

Confident people know they're good...arrogant people think they're the best.

And finally, for Osuche, the sexy ladies of Pixies are provocative...I'm annoying. ha ha

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We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.

The difference is how you react to any of them.

Your mood is the key to how you read the signs.

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Calm, quiet, smooth, devastating

I agree Oldfart, but to me the thin line is when does it become less about your perception and more about their actual behavior?

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The practice of putting women on pedestals began to die out when it was discovered that they could give orders better from there.~ Betty Grable

If I wanted your opinion, I'd remove the duct tape and ask you for it.~ Me
<~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~>
One man's dream is another man's nightmare~~~~> §¤ Lilith ¤§
~>My Scribbles<~
==>Gone Shopping<== ~Just a Quickie~ *~A Celebration Vacation~* ~Surprises~ Sleeping With the Window Open
What Did You Do Today? Self Defense Class ~Short Sweet Snippets~ § Summer Spin § Story Challenge Submission Pajamas