Dear Pixies Friends;
I would really appreciate it if those of you here who do not like performing oral sex on your partner, would describe what about it is a turn off for you. Do you feel it's degrading? Does the odor or taste turn you off? Have you actually tried it and found it disgusting? Please give me your thoughts on the subject.
I absolutely luv eating wifeys pussy and can't imagine anyone not enjoying the experience, especially when she responds with a big "O". WOW! That is the greatest.
Joe

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I think you've posted on the wrong site, my friend.

Sorry, no takers here....

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LOL @ Lilith Can't help, I love it. At first it was a little tough to get used to, considering I am a microbiology major and had to get past the no-touch policy of bodily fluids It is definitely not a degrading thing for me, but that also has a lot to do with the fact that I am very comfortable with my partner and his intentions. As far as taste, my boyfriend does not taste very strong really... it's slightly bitter, and while I certainly wouldn't put it right up there with champagne or Godiva chocolate, it is certainly not something I'd classify as "bad." I hope I could help out a little bit despite the fact that I like it

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dick,

Your reference to being unable to imagine anyone not enjoying the experience may be important.

Those who dislike oral sex may be influenced more by their preexisting ideas on the subject rather than the sensations.

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I used to dislike the act for a number of different reasons.

My first experience of oral sex took place before I was quite ready for it and I felt kind of pressured in to it.

I have also had partners in the past who were not as clean as they should have been, and I did find that more than a turn off, but I currently have a delicious man (literally) who is always clean, never puts pressure on me and is as suckable as can be!

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I do know some women who don't like giving them because they feel it's a power struggle.

Steph I do think that often that has a lot to do with it. Mr. Lil has never begged, bugged, pleaded, cajoled, whined, or tried to persuade me to give him one. Subsequently, I give them to him because I know he likes them (as do I:slurp and yet never pressures me to please him that way. Puts it in my court, which eliminates those power issues. Well except the power I have to make him writhe, and suck his breath sharply between his teeth

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LOL Lil! Amen!

"Suck my cock" is used as an insult and sometimes men don't ask nicely enough for it.

Wow! Thanks for the comments so far gang. Still looking for more input. I know this group is sexier than the average but still hoped to find some who just don't like to go down for whatever reason.
Thanks again...

P.S. Just wish wifey had your positive attitudes.

Welcum to Pixies dick!

Does wifey know you call her wifey? LOL....oh geezzzz....ok....well....I had a thought about that.........

I think you have a valid question here.....yet I honestly thought we'd still being hearing Lilth's crickets as I don't know anyone who hates giving head.

And I got to thinking.....maybe his "wifey" doesn't like sucking his cock. Then I thought....maybe it's because she HATES being called "wifey".

But.....well...that's just my thoughts. I could be wrong and if so I appologize!

To answer your question......I've been told I could suck a golf ball through a garden hose.....yet lick so lightly at times.....he'd swear it was only a Pixie fairy's wings! I love to perfect my talent with every chance I get!

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lol Lixy... nice of ya to welcome Joe, but I think he's been a member longer then you.


(((((Joe)))))
You are a terrific hubby and your 'wifey' is a lucky lady!! She may not ever change her attitude about giving oral sex. I think it's her background/up-bringing that causes her to not be able or willing to do it. I don't know how you change something as deeply rooted as that. But I do think you're going about it the right way, no pressure but suggesting you'd like it. Does she read erotic stories? Maybe if she read a few with oral sex protrayed as something enjoyable for both parties concerned. Good luck.

Cya in IM...
teddy xxooxx

Oops! My mistake Teddy! I normally check profiles, but I was rushed for time when I posted my reply. Can't say as I have run into dick (Joe) around the boards very often though....and so I automatically brought out the welcum wagon. How bout I just say.....nice to see you posting dick! And...as I said about the "wifey" thing.......I could be wrong and if I am...I appologize......but, I just know if Mr. Lix referred to me as "wifey".....or "the little woman"......or "the Mrs."......or even "the ball and chain"....he'd have an indent on the sofa cushions that would be the precise size of his ass! LMAO!

OK...carry on!