Need some advice...


If an opportunity presents itself, would it be better to be the seducer or the seducee? Which do you find more attractive??

Is the seducer the one who needs to bear the weight of the guilt...if there is any?

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In the throws of passion I don't think it matters who initiated things. Truthfully I think it's sexy as hell when a woman makes the moves although I've only ever experienced it once. As for guilt, You can seduce your wonderfully enticing ass off and if there's no interest (must be comatose) it won't work. 50% guilt max.

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You cannot seduce anyone who is not open to being seduced, even if it is just in the way back corners of the mind...so who is really the seducer?...hmmmm

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My brain just exploded from reading Skip before the coffee kicked in.

I relish both roles. Sometimes I like coming home from work and being seduced by a romantic man, other times I like to hold the power. But come on, who doesn't love a massage?

Geez Steph...coffee always comes before Skip...you should know better by now.

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i would rather be the seducee......i would feel like i was making her do something she didnt want to do.

Oh I should have clarified this as a situation with someone new maybe. we all have the possibility of role and role reversal in outr usuall relationships but when it's the very beginnings of some thing new. Do you want to be seduced, tempted or do you wanna lead?

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In that case, I love to be seduced. I am very often the agressor and sometimes its nice to be wanted like that.

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Love...the slowest form of suicide.

I like to be seduced. It's nice to get that feeling of desirability.

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In memory of my friend skip...
Go then, there are other worlds than these

Didnt I just say that???....geez

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Love...the slowest form of suicide.

Well you 2 know neither of you stand a chance and together you'd be in a serious mess

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Diddo!

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I have no problem with being the Seducer. I was just curious if some men find that sort of sexual aggressiveness off-putting.

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Some may, but I doubt you find too many here.

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Love...the slowest form of suicide.

Being the shy and quiet guy that I am, I would NEED to be seduced. I'll flirt and talk without a problem, but until I'm comfortable with you, would need prodding along.

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