My lady loves to be blindfolded, then undressed, and sometimes even made love to (while still wearing the blindfold). She recently mentioned to me that she would like me to use my imagination to come up with other ways we can incorporate the blindfold into our lovemaking/foreplay. Imagination isn't my greatest strength. Any ideas?

Hi Michael Smith.
go out and rent 9 1/2 weeks, there might be something there interesting to your taste.

Knowing you like I do, I suspect she has a great sense of humor. Try tying her up and blindfolding her, and pretend you're bringing a sheep into the bedroom. Hoof steps, muffled bleating, maybe some leash noise. Nobody says it has to be serious and intense the whole time, and it'd be a great way to cut the initial tension.

When you're ready to get serious, tease the holy hell out of her before finally bringing her to orgasm. Not knowing what's next will force her imagination into overdrive, so mix things up from your usual pattern of behavior. Unusual angles of attention will also keep her guessing. When you're finally ready to let her go to completion, settle into a postion she'll recognize as one she regularly orgasms in. You'll be rewarded with a great sigh of satisfaction as she figures out the time to climax is finally nearing. Just don't make the barnyard noises near the end. Hell hath no fury....

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OMG WI..if you did this to me...you'd better not untie me!!!!!!!!Your ASS would be grass....LMFAO!!


Michael..Don't you dare listen to what WI says..LOL..she's gonna kill ya!!

But to tie her up..and use a big feather to touch her...it will send chills through her spine and the anticipation of where the next touch will be...should be very intense!

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def tied up ! feather is nice, or the edge of a silk scarf if u dont have a feather handy, a thornless rose being lighty dragged acrosss her skin wud be great to... or u cud use some crushed ice, put it in ur mouth and kiss her all over finally ending up downon her ( ull need pleanty of ice) the combo of the cold from the ice and hot from ur mouth will rock! drive her nuts!!!!!!! for as long as u can then finally let her cum and cum and cum before u finish...............
hmmmmmmmmm i do think ukjeeping needs to read this before he comes to bed tonight..............

~nikki~

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Some of my best blindfolded experiences have been when he varies extremes. He has filled a ziploc with ice and water and another with a wet cloth he nuked in the micro, using the contents and the bags filled with the contents at unpredictable intervals. Same for light kisses/licks (as I hate to be tickled and it would ruin the mood) and then spanks. Not that there is ever a wrong time for it but for me it's a great time for hairpulling too. One thing peolpe don't often consider is that being blindfolded is not only a freeing experience for the one blindfolded but also for the one doing the blindfolding. Inhibitions can be overcome. If you usually take her in a gentle loving manner, rough it up, or vice versa. Being blindfolded while being pampered and worshipped in the bathtub is a good thing too!

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Great idea...then you could make noises like Flipper!

<----- sits down and shuts up without being told.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.

Legs: Thanks! I think I even have that on DVD. It's been awhile since I've seen it, but now that you mention it, I do remember some VERY hot scenes in there. I will definitely give it another look very soon!

WI: She has a great sense of humor. She is the only person I know that's as funny as you are. Thank God she is better looking, though! HAHA! Man, I'm not sure about the sheep part, but the rest is great advice. And she definitely LOVES to be tied up. Thanks!

Lovediva: OK. A feather would feel very nice! And since she would be blindfolded, she would never know where the next touch is going. Thank you! But if I can't find a feather, I wonder if sheep's wool would work equally well.

Back to WI: Ok, tell me you've never really done the sheep thing!

Nikki: Nice! Maybe lots of different items with different textures, then? Thank you!

Lilith: Varying extremes would work great while blindfolded because she wouldn't know what to expect next. I like that! She also likes light spanking and I've never really pulled her hair in a rough manner. I'll give that a try. WOW - I love the blindfolded bathtub thing. I've done that without the blindfold before, but I really like the sound of that! Thank you!



What do you think of blindfolding her and leading her to another room (away from all the sheep), so she doesn't know exactly where she is? Would that add to the experience, you think? Then I could do lots of the above suggestions and finish off with a blindfolded sponge bath. I'm liking the sound of this. Thank you all for your help!

I say spin her around and disorient her, play loud music....

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I'm not so sure about the animal noises but if you're going to change rooms... wouldn't it be ummmmmm shocking to hear people talking in that room only to shush when you entered? (Easily done by asking your friends to help by making a tape of them laughing and talking... then use a remote controlled boom box) LOL To top that, have her politely gagged so she can't ask if anybody's watching. Then tease her good and stop as if you're looking to someone for approval. LOL That is if you haven't brought an audience... which you won't.. right? By the time the blindfold comes off and the matress rocking starts she'll have a whole new meaning for excitement.

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I LOVE this^^^^^^^^

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Lilith: Yeah, I like the idea of disorienting her and maybe playing music that she is not normally used to hearing when we make love. I thought if I could spin her around and lead her to various parts of the house, she wouldn't be able to determine exactly where she's at. That would take her just outside her comfort zone - which is what she's looking for. Thank you!

BigBear: No, there wouldn't be a real audience, but a fake one would be very interesting. She did say use your imagination. Thank you!

Sharni: You should probably hurry. Blindfolds could be moving off the shelves left and right after all of these great ideas.

These are some great ideas.

I'm very smell oriented, so you may wanna think about incorporating different fragrances into it as well.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.

It better not be sheepshit!!!

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"Never shall I forget the time I spent with you. Please
continue to be my friend, as you will always find me yours."
Ludwig van Beethoven (1770-1827)

"Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away."