I find blowjobs arent quite the same if the girl isnt on her knees, its just a great view, a top view of the breasts and ass and face looking up and sucking.

i've had some women say that being on their knees is degrading, but then i guess it was all the more fun when they decided to do it anyways...lol

what do you guys think?

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I prefer him sitting against the back of the bed w/me lying tummy down on the bed or me perpendicular to him so that he can reach my breasts or between my legs at the same time; or, to awaken him while he is sleeping, him on his side w/me on my opposite side facing him; or him on his back w/me kneeling over him; or me on my back on the bed w/my head hanging over the edge and him standing over me in a face-f**k position so he can play w/my breasts as I play w/myself. Not that I wouldn't do it w/me on my knees. Even though I consider myself a sub, if I think I am there because YOU see it as a degrading position, I'd rather bite it than suck it.

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I dont see it as degrading at all, after all a sex position is just a sex position...

btw whats a sub?

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I find it degrading to give oral sex to a man who finds it degrading.

Is this curcular??? Oh, well...I meant it!

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Life is too short not to love and be loved....preferably multiple times in one night.

I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney

"sub" = submissive.

Those who prefer to take a submissive role during sex.

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Life is too short not to love and be loved....preferably multiple times in one night.

I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney

I agree, but don't get the idea that it is synonymous w/"passive role." It definitely does not have to be passive. For me it also doesn't mean to degrade, humiliate, or show disrespect to the sub but DOES mean that my main objective as a sub is to please. And toward that end I take a very active role.

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never had a blowjob, don't have an opinion on it

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I don't think the position is the most important thing and wouldn't ever want to think of anything my wife and I do as degrading to either one of us.

I want all the sex between us to be something fun and loving for the both of us.

Does that sound "old-fashioned?"

I'll be submissive if my man wants to play king of the mountain!
The view is pretty damn good from down there looking up! hehe And you have those jewels staring you right in the face. mmmmm. just makes me wanna stick my face right under there and root around some! LOL!

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Actually..............with a BJ......................the Skys the Limit. Makes no never mind to me what position my partener is in. If it's a GREAT BJ then let the GOOD TIMES ROLLLLLLLLLLLL!

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what else during BJs? I have friends who like to rub their 'jewel' on their girls face, around their lips kinda thing. Also lightly tapping it against their face, I knew a few girls who liked it too.

Do other people do stuff like that too?

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Him do it? No....I do it myself. I love to take it in my hand and trace my lips with it...nothing like the feel of that taut, smoother-than-a-baby's-butt skin on my lips...and w/just a hint of precum to use as lipgloss? Mmmmmmm. :lust:

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Cant say there is any "bad" way to get a blow job. As far as the best i agree that being able to see their eyes is great. Not much for facials though...dunno what it is about them but i have never had the desire to do that.

Degrading? Hmm, never thought of it that way. I prefer to be on my knees, whether he is sitting or standing. I'm more in control that way and because I'm out of reach it's all about giving him pleasure.

Wow, kinda makes me sound .... traditional??!?

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Prefer to be laying down myself...my knees always tend to get shakey if it's going well....