I was arguing with this guy once (not from pp, of course.. people here are COOL ) and basically here's the convo:

me: i havent seen [my bf] since last tue
the guy: oh no...why?
the guy: is he seeing someone else?
me: lol
me: because i only see him once a week because he lives 45 miles south of me
me: and i dont have a car here and he has to borrow his bros
me: and he isnot seeing anyone else and neither am i and we trust each other
the guy: hmmm...can you be sure about that?.After all,he is a guy..
me: i am sure
the guy: hmmm...I hope so for your sake Jacki.It is very hard for a guy to stay loyal to a girl who will not have intercourse with you.

So I am just asking guys... from your point of view.. how true is this?

Personally, I believe that if you love and care for the person, that should be what holds you and the person together, not sex or physical pleasure.

Sure, I'm quite certain sex would be great, and even oral and stuff that I actually do are very fun, but I think it's the extra.. its the bonus... and it is not the basis for the relationship.

So guys... if you were in a relationship with someone and there weas no sex... would you be more tempted to cheat and have sex, or would you really loved and cared about the person you would be satisfied with them?

[I am a girl and I AM a virgin.. so I might be biased in that point of view thinking sex is overrated.. so I'd like to see what you guys think]

PS and in case you are wondering... I've been with my bf for almost 5 months and we haven't had sex yet..