In my family I was brought up with a strict since of everything. This is the way you do this. But luckly I had an older sister that pretty much told me everything I needed to know. I couldn't go to my dad... he was brought up in a very religious home and my mom was a bit cooler than my dad. I learned most everything when my sister @ 17 got pregnant and my cousin @ 16 got pregnant. But I feel the reason they ended up pregnant is because no one talked about it. It was like if you dont talk about it, it wont happen. Well it did. So now I have trained my way of thinking to being open with it. My daughter is only 11 but I have already started talking to her. So she will know when she really has questions then she can come to me. I also told her that if she felt embarressed to talk to me she can ask her Aunt or Grandma. Showing she has an alternitive to me. Now my son is only 7 and he isn't showing to much interest yet. I beleive you need to have some sort of protection available so when the situation comes up you will have something there.

Besides sometime it is too hard to say "No, I dont think we should do this until we are married" during the heat of the moment.

Sorry to go on.....just my two cents worth.
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