The wife (of 13 years) and I are considering trying a 3-some. Two 3-somes actually. One with another guy, and one with another girl.

For those couples (married or long-term relationship) that have been there, done that, we'd like to ask what issues (if any) were caused AFTER the events took place? Was jealousy an issue? I assume you spent a lot of time talking ahead of time.

We want to try it (both of 'em) but we also know of many horror stories about 3-somes. We don't want to be one of them!

For the record, we've got great open lines of communication between us.

Thanks!