
06-27-2005, 03:47 PM
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Made in England
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Join Date: Aug 2002
Location: Hamilton, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 8,180
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Love is a wonderful thing Steph but with the wrong man it is hell on earth. Sometimes we have to let go for our own sanity and self worth.....
I had to do it after living with someone for 8 years. It's hard to do but when I look at the end results I made the right choice for me and that is who you have to face each day in the mirror, yourself. You can't make someone change if they don't want to no matter how much you love and nurture them or wish them to change. Some people are just not salvagable.
Answer this." Is your life better with him in it or with him out of it?" Be honest with yourself Steph and the answers will be very clear. Let him save himself and you take care of yourself.....Walking away is tough but it makes you realize how empowered you are. Don't settle for 1%. You deserve much better! 
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