Amen Nicole! Lucky ladies indeed.

And holy smokes, PF....I think you may have just qualified for a key to the girls' locker room. I think you've just about got us figured out...didn't think guys ever managed that .

Really guys, as cliche as it is....in my experience, women are attracted to confidence. And I know, I know....it's a chicken and egg thing. Where's that first dash of confidence supposed to come from? It sounds frustrating, but only until you see that tacitly, you're asking the wrong question. My guy friends have had screaming fits at me when I said it was that simple....but they thought "confidence" was "sexual confidence". It seriously doesn't have to be. Have you SEEN some the pug-uglies that women have put up as poster boys? Jagger just never was a pretty man . Hell, there's something especially breath-catching about a guy who's confident about everything else in his life...but whom I could give sexual confidence to.

Look into yourselves, find what you ARE confident about, find what you love, and let that show through. Focus on your strengths, and so will the women around you. Contrarily, if you focus on your weaknesses or your insecurities....so will the people in your life. It is pretty much that simple, even if simple doesn't always mean easy. But have faith, you'll get there. And as a happy bonus, if you find a woman who's attracted to what you love most in life.....you've got someone to share that part of your life with, as well as your bed.