I actually enjoy the feeling of penetration even if I cannot orgasm from it. About 50-60% of the sexual encounters I have are penetration, and don't involve me orgasming. but I enjoy them nonetheless -- selfishly (and unselfishly).

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Life is too short not to love and be loved....preferably multiple times in one night.

I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney