Originally Posted by joe_someguy

Second fiddle??? I'm not looking for second fiddle at all! I just know that there are plenty of married women out there that want to stay that way also, but still have needs that aren't being taken care of. Sorry if you had some bad experiences and you're feeling a bit bitter, but don't judge others because we're out here trying to have our physical needs and wants met while trying to hold our families together. I would hope that nobody here is being judgemental of you because of your lifestyle choices...