Do you want to know if your lover is really satisfied every time you make love... or would you be just as happy to let her pretend some of the time?? [/QUOTE]

for me, it is more exciting, fulfilling, satisfying, to know that she is truly satisfied,, i guess that is the 'pleaser' in my nature,,,
there is nothing better than hearing moans of genuine pleasure coming from her, that has the effect of making the lovemaking more intense, more memorable,,,