I still use the word "sir." LMAO. I just started a new job, and the first time I said "Yes, sir" I got this puzzled look. I think the man thought I was mocking him! But I wasn't.

I hold the door for older people, and if I arrive first....I even hold it for a guy. SOmetimes it makes them uncomfortable, but I see that discomfort less and less nowadays.

I do, however, like being treated with the same respect.

The greatest mark of courtesy IMHO? Find something to compliment someone on -- their shirt, tie, jewelry, etc. And mean it. It's amazing how many people light up at the mere hint of a compliment.

Now that's courtesy.

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