If moving way up north is not an option...I suggest purchasing the house next door to yours just for you. Then Mr. Lil & the kids can do whatever they want, and you can invite me.....oops, I mean Mr. Lil.....over for that freaky deaky sex you're currently being muffled during.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.