Not to put down anyone's taste in music, but that hardcore/heavy stuff puts me in the mood to break shit, not make love..lol. I'm with the people that voted for blues or jazz. Some of Harry Connick Jr's earlier stuff is good, Bonnie Raitt is good too. Last couple girls I've been with have actually picked out CD's before we got in bed, one was Savage Garden's Affirmation and the other was Melissa Etheridge's Your Little Secret. Anything by Sarah McLachlan or some of Allison Krauss's newer stuff will always get me in the mood. Allison's voice must be the sexiest I've ever heard, but some of Sara's vocals/moans on Fumbling Towards Extacy put me over the edge instantly.

Just my 2 cents..lol.