05-04-2005, 11:31 AM
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pixie of the wood
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Join Date: Apr 2004
Posts: 10,575
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lou is right. you need some one on one communication and then there will be no ambiguity.
i was embarassed to talk about my turn-ons with my huband and i've know him 17 years or so. and he was the same way. we'd just sort of try something new during sex and be alert to those unspoken cues that say whatever it is you're doing, it's not fun. i still feel shy about certain stuf and i blush like mad when i talk about it but i can promise you that once it's been said it's not nearly as scary as you thought it would be. i can't give you the courage but someone needs to take the plunge.  just go for it. |