That is the whole point i cant get the courage to come right out and say it but i have been trying to formulate something all day. me and my hubby regularly email stuff back and forth. i was thinking maybe email him erotic stories(as i have a membership with several story porn sites, i like reading erotica better then seeing it.) and say ...ok which of these two or three do you like best or what ever, but im not sure if he would respond correctly. usually when i do something like that i get " why did you send this?" But no real answer.

i feel almost as if he doesnt want to talk about sex to me at all as my first post hints at. perhaps he has issues like mine. But that doesnt seem to be the case. i know there are somethings he likes and we've tried a few things but i cant do the "one" that i think he would get off on the most. that he liked the best.

he likes fisting and i am just too small. the best we got was four ... and that last knuckle just hurt too much. he says it isnt a big deal buti know it is. We have tried anal though he isnt so into this as fisting.And now he doesnt seem to want to eentry anymore. but i cant seem to tell him i want to try again... only this time a little slower and that more lube would help.

here is another question i seen advertised on a porn site the women could learn to "squirt" when they come ... i am wondering if this is true . i would like to try that , yknow as a surprise for him.

Serious Communication Issue Callie *SCIC* lol