You're right MM ... it doesn't make sense, except if you realize that maybe at an age similar to yours they realize (even if only subconsciously) that they aren't really ready to settle down yet, so they don't want to go for someone wonderful enough to make them want to settle down. Keep being you and someday ... probably not as far away as you feel right now ... that special girl is going to take one look at you and know in her heart and soul that you are exactly what she's been looking for all her life! Best wishes for you until then!