Hmmm.....I wouldn't flirt with my mom's employees either. Of course, I think it depends how many options exist in town....if it's a small place, there might not be a choice.

I'd just be friendly and a bit flirtatious and see if I could "encourage" him a bit. Generally, the men that I have dated have wanted to preserve their self-confidence, and only asked me out when they were certain that I would say "yes."

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