CGT, male menopause is not a myth, it's just different from the female variety, as it usually does not involve a total shutdown...more like a tapering off of sperm production, & of course some loss of erectile function...septegenerions fathering children seems to prove not all sperm production is lost with age, & in any event sperm is but a small percentage of spoo...
eaglemark, I've been down the diabetic road myself, & suffered some related sexual dysfunction with it, but not dry orgasms...defininately your doc needs to refer you to a good plumber (urologist) ASAP, sounds like something amiss in the prostate area...a warning tho, they'll prob want you to have a Cystoscopy, (you don't want that, but it may be the only option)...just curious, what meds are you taking for the diabetes? I was on avandia & avaryl till weight loss brought my blood sugar back under control...

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