I don't know what "same ole" exactly means ... but I'm assuming something like the missionary position?

Oldfart has a good idea. Maybe wake him with some soft kisses in some erotic places during the night. Or, sneak up behind him when he's looking at something and wrap your arms around him, caressing him. Maybe sit at his feet while he's watching TV and lay your head in a strategic place.

Lots of fairly nice, gentle ways of maybe getting his hormones flowing before he quite realizes it's happening. (I know those ideas would work with me. )