
03-29-2005, 08:32 PM
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~a little bit naughty~
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Join Date: Jun 2004
Location: Georgia
Posts: 23,422
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Originally Posted by flutelady
I can only answer for myself, but here goes...
Until I was 42, I never EVER masturbated. I always strongly felt that it was "his job" to keep me satisfied ( I DO NOT feel this way any longer, I don't know who that nutcase that lived in my skin was). I particularly shied away from battery operated toys because I didn't want my sexual satisfaction to be contingent upon whether or not I had fresh batteries.
Then I went to a pleasure party. I bought my first toy- the Kangaroo. It sat in the drawer untouched for months, and then one day in desperation I decided to fire it up. I immediately had 3 huge orgasms and the rest is history. That's when my life began to change, THANK GOD!
I now view sex and lovemaking as a team sport, but my orgasms are ultimately my own responsibility. I now masturbate on a regular basis, and I like to tell him about it when I do. I particularly like to call him when he's at work and I'm just about to cum :devilish:
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That was a great post flutelady and congrats on taking charge of your own orgasms. Just always remember to buy those batteries in bulk.
I started masturbating around 12 I think. Got funny feelings down there that just felt better when I rubbed it.
I continued using my fingers or some homemade toy like a hairbrush handle until Hubby got me my first vibe when I was 23. The rest is history with my love for sex toys and masturbation.
I like to do it alone very much but when he is watching me play and I am watching him. That is just so very hot! 
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