I can only answer for myself, but here goes...

Until I was 42, I never EVER masturbated. I always strongly felt that it was "his job" to keep me satisfied ( I DO NOT feel this way any longer, I don't know who that nutcase that lived in my skin was). I particularly shied away from battery operated toys because I didn't want my sexual satisfaction to be contingent upon whether or not I had fresh batteries.

Then I went to a pleasure party. I bought my first toy- the Kangaroo. It sat in the drawer untouched for months, and then one day in desperation I decided to fire it up. I immediately had 3 huge orgasms and the rest is history. That's when my life began to change, THANK GOD!

I now view sex and lovemaking as a team sport, but my orgasms are ultimately my own responsibility. I now masturbate on a regular basis, and I like to tell him about it when I do. I particularly like to call him when he's at work and I'm just about to cum :devilish:

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Dear Lord, I pray for wisdom to understand my man, love to forgive him, and patience for his moods. Because Lord, if I pray for strength, I'll beat him to death. AMEN


It's no trick loving somebody at their best. Love is loving them at their worst.
~Tom Stoppard~


It isn't premarital sex if you have no intention of getting married.
~George Burns~


As bad as I am, I'm proud of the fact that I'm worse than I seem.
~A. DiFranco~