I'll have to agree with Wally.Knowing;that your partner wants to;
is everything.As said;communication;is the most important thing;in
the satisfaction;of your partner.I have been married for 37yrs;and
most of it relates;to the fact;that we discuss everything.After all
that time;there is no embarrassment with each other! Irish
P.S.As I have said before:There is no such thing as a bad BJ;some
are better then others;but;none are bad!

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Irish---Better to be dead & cool,then alive & uncool!
(Harley Davidson & the Marlboro Man)