well Clint, my words of wisdom for your friend is this...he shouldnt have to put himself through physical pain just to please his girlfriend,at the adult age, the risks associated with circumsion are fairly high, and he should only consider chancing it if its what HE wants. there is nothing wrong with being "uncut" its perfectly normal, and perhaps he should ask his girlfriend how she would feel if he told her he wouldnt sleep with her until she had her clitoris circumsised......after all whats good for the goose is good for the gander