A couple questions here. Some are basic BUT I want to really understand this so excuse some of the "dumb" questions.

1) What is actually happening when you pop the cherry?

2) Why do they call it a "cherry"

3) A girl can do it themselves with a sex toy correct?

4) If I was to have sex with a virgin, whats the best way to handle this situation in terms of clean up and approach?

5) Im only 5 inches, but I am assuming I would pop her cherry correct?