Mrs. WI has sometimes expressed that she's often in the mood for sex but doesn't have the energy for it as the night advances. The times we are on the fence about it and proceed despite the late hour...there are no regrets. I agree with your theory, Lil. Sometimes we just need a gentle nudge to do what we kinda feel like doing.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.