Oh! For the hot tub thing, find a pool and spa retailer and they sell these hot tub fragrances that scent the actual hot tub water without clogging the filters and making the water oily. Go for something sweet smelling with floral undertones. But not fruity...fruity is tropical but not neccessarily romantic.

And as far as the lingerie, the above advise is the best you can get. Ask a friend or relative of hers. otherwise, just ask some woman who knows her. we tend to be pretty aware of sizes and can pretty closely probably give you a best guess. Hell, you could probably put a picture of her on here and one of us ladies could probably give you a good guess as far as small, medium, large etc.

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