It's not that big a deal. I've been kissed after my lady has gone down on me. I just never really let it enter my mind. Snowballing is really not that big a deal. I've gone down on a lady after i've cummed inside her. It's nice plus some women really get off on the fact that you went there after the fact.

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Deep into that darkness peering,
long I stood there, wondering, fearing,
Doubting, dreaming dreams
no mortal ever dreamed before.