I know it hurts, but in time you WILL heal and the PAIN will go, if you allow yourself to move on.

I know it feels as if life is pointless and that you have more high than lows, but it's not true. This is going to sound harsh but you have more in life than the majority of the people on this planet could ever wish for.

You have freedom of choice.
You have a roof over your head.
You do not have to live in fear.
You are not hungry.
You know what tomorrow brings (even if you feel that it's only 'more of the same old bullshit)
You have health and live in a country where help is at hand if your health fails.
You have an education.

These things mean, that you're one of life's lucky ones....you're one of life's winners, and although you may feel peeved about your ex, think of all the worse ways you could have lost her: she could have been bombed out of the sky in a plain over Iraq, she could have had to leap from a window of one of the twin towers, she could have been swept away, along with your parents, brothers and sisters, house, job, car, friends etc in the recent tsunami. These things didn't happen to a different species of people, they happened to a person just like you and your oh so positive friend.

Sounds like you and he are both depressed, if so you can go to a doc for some pills that'll help ease the pain....just be grateful that you can do that. They haven't yet invented a pill that'll bring someone back to life.

My point is you can sit here and try to tell us all about how you are a victim and how life has treated you so badly, but as the song goes, baby you ain't seen nothin' yet! Be glad about everything that's gone right in your life, and when your friend starts on at you with all his doom and gloom, perhaps you could remind him that you guys are the lucky ones, even if it doesn't always feel like it.


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Fruit flies like a banana"

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