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Ok dude. I can tell you that it took me a while to adjust to me and my ex-wife going our seperate ways. After we split it took me another 3 yrs to get her out of my system. I had known her for quite a few years and it took me longer than what I thought it would. Now that isn't to say that is what will happen with you.

If you do see her around the traps and she makes an effort to talk to you, just be polite. If she asks how you have been or what your day has been like etc, just say it's been fine or whatever and go about your business.

Lashing out at her in words will only make it more difficult for you. I say that because she will see that you still care for her and she may use it against you, just to rub you the wrong way. Then again she may not.

For what it's worth, don't worry about it. If she want's to talk with you and you feel uncomfortable about it, then just walk away. Make up an excuse and leave. There is no sense in thinking about old times. If it's over it's over.

I know that it's sounds harsh,but there is no point in putting yourself through anymore pain or humiliation by being rude to her. So avoidance should be the order of the day.