At 20? LOL -- that wasn't too long ago.

My ideal date was dinner and then going for coffee and a walk around campus or wherever. I've *never* liked going to movies on dats because I want to TALK to my date.

Kissing on the first date? Depends on the guy and the situation. More often yes than no, but I wanted to be the one to at least signal it was OK....rather than having the guy assume. Holding hands was definately OK

Sex? Depends on the guy. Ranged from 3rd date (@2 weeks) to 6 months....LOL....or never.

As for the family.....My family is the center of my life. If they were in town, my "date" was always welcome to come, and hangout. No pressure, no big deal.

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Life is too short not to love and be loved....preferably multiple times in one night.

I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney