I didn't become confident in my abilities until just recently...but I think I had a sexual coming of age around 17/18 or so. During my earlier teen years I think I saw sex as more of a game, something to do to make yourself seem more like an adult. of course that's a completely absurd thought to me now, and I hope that if I ever have children that they don't go through that.

Around 17, I realized that you didn't have sex or give boys blowjobs to IMPRESS people, and at the same time I began to view sex as what it really is and SHOULD be. Does that make any sense?? That was my sexual coming of age.

I have a very relaxed and natural attitude toward sex and always have, so I'm able to keep a more innocent attitude about the entire thing.

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