01-06-2005, 10:34 AM
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~a little bit naughty~
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Join Date: Jun 2004
Location: Georgia
Posts: 23,422
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Oh a topic I know something about. 
Like everyone says it takes lots of trust and talking. Every couple is different and they better know what they are wanting before they go bringing in another person to their "bedroom."
With the couple we play with the woman doesn't want her man playing with me. We knew their rules before hand and totally respected them. I have no jealousy watching my man do anything with her but that is me.
We are currently looking to do some MFM fun. We talk alot about what we will and won't do. Like Stud doesn't want to see me kissing a man and I respect his wishes and won't do that.
To us we see adding another person or couple into our sex life as a way to enhance what we already have with each other. Much like sex toys or watching porn. Granted we are talking about real people and we would never just use someone without taking into account what they are wanting and making sure we are all compatiable and comfortable with each other.
Again make sure you both really want this. Years ago I tried to do this just to please my hubby and that backfired on us both. If you both don't really want it its best to just keep it in fantasy.  |