The little bit that I caught of it on 20/20 showed the "stepford wives" type of women... obviously we all know that ALL women are not of this mold. Mama talked about the importance of seduction... and from what I followed of it, her "owning the man" was about seducing him rather always waiting for him to seduce... sort of leveling the playing field.. you have to sometimes give to get... made logical sense to me but many of these women always waited for their men to initiate sexual activity...