OMG!!! ROTFLMAOPMP!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Like CGT said...keep it gentle.

And, as you say, your communication level is good - perhaps investing in an egg or bullet for her and let her experiment on her own at first and then introduce it into your lovemaking sessions. Sometimes part of not being able to orgasm isn't in the stimulation but rather in the mind- she may be holding back because the sensation is so very new to her. Be patient with her too...she needs to get to know her own body and responses without feeling your frustration at her lack of orgasm...

Also, not all women orgasm by penetration alone but need additional stimulation on their clit. It really doesn't matter if you are 4 inches or 8 so don't worry about your size.

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