I would not be into spanking or inflicting pain on anyone whether they liked it or not. Its just not my nature. What makes my bells tingle is caring and tenderness, I like to make love not fuck.

I suppose its different strokes for different folks. I abhor violence and I found it difficult to even spank my kids. I was brought up by the 'spare the rod and spoil the child' method and it severly affected me. I vowed that my children would not get what I did and would think of me as a gentle loving person rather than fear me, like I did my father as a child. Luckily in later years my father regretted his mistakes and more than made up for it.

So i am a gentle, non violent person in all aspects of my life.