I've definitely used - well not quite that phrase, because it involves a word I won't say - but something similar to that in a derogatory manner. It's the same as a guy saying "suck my dick." While that wouldn't be punishment for me, it may be for some women.

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I see your fantasy... you want to make it a reality

Are you in the mood to be subdued

You see these shackles
Baby I’m your slave
I’ll let you whip me if I misbehave

Tie me to the bedpost

I like it rough
cause I'd rather feel pain than nothing at all