I agree with Sharni -- it depends on the situation...

sometimes I just need to have an explosive orgasm, y'know, so I skip all the in-between and go right for the kill...

but sometimes it's just more fun to have "foreplay" with your self, involving thighs, breasts....whatever you please, and the longer the better

and sometimes it's just fun to see how many times you can do it before falling asleep!! LOL

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