
12-09-2004, 12:36 AM
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Join Date: Nov 2001
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wow...all this and I was just trying to figure out how to study for finals and get laid
Mr.Lil does as much if not more of the house stuff...we each do what we prefer to do and take turns on the rest. It's not a plan or written in stone. We respect and care about eachother and it's OUR house, and OUR kids, and OUR lives, so we both work at it. We cooperate and take up the slack for each other. There is not his jobs and my jobs. There's no chore list etc. If it needs doing and you can do it then that's great. Of course I would not be married to a man who did not think this way. Or at least not for long  And I think there are many men out there who see home as a joint venture.
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