So DangerousPet and I are still fairly new to this whole dominating bit but the more we read the stories and the more we try the more we both agree how much we like it.

But we both do it for the mutual enjoyment of it over the agression to it, so I wanted to throw the question out to all the women (and men if you have any suggestions) of just what turns you on or what ideas / suggestions you might have to increase the whole scene. She is a huge fan of being tied up and of using ice but I'm looking for some more low key ideas (no whips or such)

Also, if someone could find a leather bikini or leather underwear set I think I know what I want to get my pet for christmas....