For me, the quality of my sexual experiences with the men in my life has depended upon my emotional relationship with them. I, unfortunately, began the sexual road at an early age, and, more unfortunately, did not have a good "teacher." When I first *really* fell in love--I *knew* I was head over heels--I *immediately* wanted to make myself the most desireable person I could be. I read books, worked on my mindset...and it shows in a *total* change in attitude both in and out of the bedroom.

I'm not sure this helps you, osuche, but I do understand.

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"Life is too short to wake up in the morning with regrets. So love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who don't, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance, take it. If it changes your life, then let it, and if you have to wait for what you really want, take the time because nobody said that life would be easy. They just promised it would be worth it." ~ Unknown author